1. NontoniNontoni the ceremony to see the prospective couple will marry. In the past people would not necessarily married to the person knew was going to marry, even sometimes not seen, although it is possible they also know and knew or had seen.
In order for a picture of her soul mate who will then be held nontoni ordinances. This procedure is usually initiated by the male. After the parents of the virgin who would have sent diperjodohkan investigations about the girl's condition to be taken in-law. The investigation was called dom sumuruping G_Building or investigation in secret.
After this nontoni satisfactory results, and able to accept the option siperjaka parents, then the consultation held between parents / pinisepuh the virgin to determine application procedures.
2. Application wedding
Applying means proposed, because in ancient times among men and women who will marry sometimes still do not know each other, so it is the parents who find a soul mate by asking the person whether or not his daughter already has a potential husband. From here can dirembug good day for accepting applications for approval together.
Ceremony proposal: On the day set, there came a messenger from the besan prospective parents grooms with souvenirs. In ancient times commonly known Jodang (where food, etc.) are borne by four men. The food is usually made of glutinous rice, among others: bastard, diamonds, etc. rengginan. According to the instincts of these foods contain a meaning as the nature of the raw materials that many glutennya sticky so sticky and expected future bride and groom and inter besan remain sticky (pliket, Java). After the application is received then both parties negotiate a good day Peningsetan ceremony. Many families still preserve the Java electoral systems on the market in determining pancawara good day for the ceremony and the day Peningsetan marriage consent.
3. Peningsetan
Peningsetan word is from the base singset (Java) which means the belt, so that means binding Peningsetan. Peningsetan is a ceremony of something as a parent binding groom party to the would be bride. According to the tradition of peningset: Kain batik, kebaya material, semekan, gold jewelry, money commonly called tukon (return) adjusted its economic capability, which contains jodang: bitch, diamonds, rengginan, sugar, tea, plantain tangkep one, side dishes and an assumed level of its own oil, one partner live chicken. To welcome the arrival is accompanied by gending Ganjur Nala. Usually the determination of whether the wedding day is determined jointly by both parties after the ceremony Peningsetan.
4. Ceremony Tarub
Tarub the yellow young coconut leaf decorations (leaves, young coconut) posted tratag edge made of bleketepe (woven coconut leaf green). Installation Tarub usually installed at the same time with the bride and groom to bathe (spray, Java) that is one day before the wedding was held.
For equipment other than young coconut leaf yellow Tarub there was more between the other tuwuhan called. As for colors:
- Two trees whose fruits of plantain old / mature.
- Two slender palm ivory (ivory Cengkir, Java)
- Two strands of old rice.
- Two trees wulung sugarcane (sugarcane black) that is straight.
- Fig leaf to taste.
- Leaf dadap srep.
Tuwuhan and gegodongan was mounted on the left gate to the right one unit and a unit gate (when completed bananas and coconuts can be contested in children) In addition to the above pairing is still delengkapi Tarub with the following equipment. (This is the advice and superb advice adi, hope and prayer to God the Almighty) is represented by:
- Plantain and banana sticky rice, amounting to even.
- Snack market
- Liwet rice dish that Serundeng dileri.
- Black coffee, black tea, and a cigarette.
- Bread.
- Bitch burns.
- Tempe chips.
- Sticky rice, compote, apem.
- Tumpeng bald
- Rice given classified sejodo side.
- Beef offal, ento-ento, dent gereh, gebing
- Lulut classified.
- Rice gebuli
- Rice punar
- 1 chicken tail
- Banana sticky rice 1 lirang
- 1 plantain lirang
- Fruits + snack market that placed the center was given a small cone.
- Betel leaf, lime and gambier
- Telon flowers (jasmine, ylang and kantil)
- Porridge red, white porridge, porridge baro-baro.
- Medicinal medicinal, ginger, Intersection dribbles, Dlingo, Bengle, turmeric, galingale.
- Tampah (duplicate) containing a small takir rice 1 egg 1 upon which the raw chicken eggs, coins, 1 tangkep brown sugar, coconut 1.
- Empluk-empluk clay containing rice, pecan gepak protuberance, kluwak, pengilon, JUNGKAT, suri, sesame sundul sky
- Live rooster
- Mat
- Pitcher, resin jlupak (clay lamps) were lit
- Head / buffalo meat and offal complete
- Tempe raw leaf-wrapped with a rope from the stems of rice (rice straw)
- Vegetables in mara
- Kolak golden
- Rice gebuli
- Gold banana 1 lirang
5. Nyantri
Nyantri ceremony is left would be groom to the bride's family's daughter 1 to 2 days before the wedding. This grooms dirumsh will be placed a close relative or neighbor. Nyantri ceremony is intended to smooth the course of the marriage ceremony, so the moment the church ceremony the bride was ready dit3empat man so do not bother the princess bride's family.
6. Ceremony Siraman
Splash of water from the base flush (Java), which means bath. The definition of spray was bathing bride herself membershkan means to be holy and pure
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